How to let your Child be Independent

On: 4:22 AM By: Buddhini 0 comments

Parents, you can build up your child's personality even at home. The things that often slip your mind are the best to use for this purpose. Just think for a while, some children wake up at about 5 a.m. Yet, don't engage in any educational activity, in that period. All they are doing is getting ready to go to school.

But assume that your child should leave home a 6.30 a.m. But even they wake up at 6.15 a.m. they still can manage their time to do their work and go to school at proper time. That means that even 15 minutes are enough for them to get ready to school. So , considering this situation, one hour slips from you and your child's time.

Let me give you a guide on how to make your child independent.

• Wake up your child early morning
  
  
  
  Wake up your child during 4 and 5 a.m. And advice him to arrange his bed immediately after rising from the bed.
  
• Engage him in studies
  
  
  
  Even for an hour, your child can engage in some educational activity. Psychologically speaking, BEST hours in a day are 4 to 6a.m. The brain's ability to absorb knowledge becomes greater in early morning. During these two hours brain's short term memory comes to a peak level. Therefore, engaging in self-study in this time period is so effective.
  
• Make your child Hygienic
  
  
  
  Maintaining good hygiene in your child is the most important of all. Tell your child to arrange his clothe-closet tidily. Remove tight, loose and faded clothes and keep only the clothes your child is currently using. Arrange his cupboard in a tidy manner, which makes it easier to find them quickly.
  
  Make him keep everything in specific places. Help him sort out the places where to keep which thing. The place to put his brush, towel, shoes, books, writing materials and every other stuff.
  
• Let your child do his own work
  
  
  
  Advice your child to wash his used clothes himself. In the beginning he'll be down with this but, after it is a habit, he will not miss it. And let him iron his clothes on his own. Help him with all these.
  
  Also practice him to go to market and buy goods since childhood. He'll learn about numbers and also about the society. That is essential.
  
  Always make him independent. Let him do everything by himself. That's how one will learn.
  
• Let him sweat playing
  
  
  Let your child play at least 8 hours a week. Don't cage him inside the house. Offer him his liberty and let him enjoy his childhood. Not everything means Education.
  
• About Computer Games
  
  
  Locate your home PC (Personal Computer) where it is visible to everyone. That's number one.
  
  And let your child play video games for a certain time period. Advice him not to get addicted. But don't force him no to play video games. That will boost him to play video games somehow. You should always give his desires, the priority.
  
• Have Family Meetings once a day
  
  
  The best time for this is, 'Supper Time'. Have a chit-chat with your kids everyday for about an hour. Ask them, "How was the day?", and about the school life, the people they met today and so on. Other than, a parent who is always looking down at their child as if to ground them for their behavior, be a friend to your child, And they would also treat you the same way. Treat them the way you want yourself to be treated.
  
• Practice him to Save Money
  
  
  If you have given him a till to collect money, throw away those coin collectors. Instead, focus his mind on Money Notes. Create your little one's knowledge on values of lakhs, crores, millions and billions.
  
• Focus on your Child's Health
  
  
  Practice your child to drink at least 6 bottles of water, each day. Water is the best cure for every disease.
  And give your child 'Vitamin C' each and everyday. It strengthens their healthiness.
  Also, give 'Vitamin B' at least twice a week. It is good for their nervous system.